Surprise, an event which is usually well planned with cautious fitting of all odd and even variables... Suddenly turned into add on to the price instead of surprise.
Recycling that emotional and economic wastage is not easy, so let's begin with the normal phenomenon called as fixing the damage alias damage control .
There is no what to do when surprise turned into shock remedy manual, still I try to figure one for all my lovely readers and experiment lovers :)
First and foremost keep yourself in a state where you can calculate, judge, correct , collide, cool down simply whatever is required should be able to do, and to attain that state look in mirror and this is for sure that the guy in mirror who can execute the planned sutuation is not that teneous. I mostly smile in such situations and thank god for executing his plans which are better than mine.
SeCondly, talk to the bearer of that surprise... :) if he/ she is normal and still having faith in you emotional wastage doesn't happen.
What if they are not normal, then emotional recycling is what I suggest for that is to try to create small moments and involve them without enforcing or on the spot acknowledgement.
This will help in having second thoughts but good thoughts about you.
2.1) avoid analysis of that surprise, but if possible clearly narrate what it was supposed to be like.
2.2) discuss future of your togetherness this is one way of damage control building positive future and deleting the not so positive memory.
Thirdly, dare to plan surprise again yes recycling 's most important step is to come back where you started.
All the best!!!
(article may be understood by those who dare to surprise being in love or emotion but that failed-🏆🏆🏆for everyone who understands my way of English )
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